Relationship Rescue Series: Dating Confidence Positive Affirmations audio CD

Description

Dating Confidence Affirmations
Use this powerful affirmations album to develop dating confidence and to show your best, relaxed and funny self when on a date, even with a complete stranger.
Do you get stage fright before a date?
Do you feel foolish and clumsy, not knowing what to talk about and how to behave?
Do you want to acquire the mindset that will allow you to be confident and relaxed when you go out on a date?
It’s date time and you, normally talkative and relaxed person, are frozen to death! Is this your usual scenario: you think about it days before, you imagine what you will wear, what you will say, how it will go, then somewhere in the process you start getting cold feet, frightened that you won’t be any interesting, hoping that the other party would take initiative…
Does it happen to you that you cancel the date because you get too frightened? Or do you go and completely blow it by being too nervous, too polite, too shy, too talkative…?
Dating anxiety symptoms vary from person to person, but they all have one thing in common:
no matter how hard you try, you just can’t relax and be your normal self.
And it’s understandable – you want to impress your date, but the lack of confidence makes you nervous and you do everything wrong. Now, you can date for years and still be insecure when you’re on a date with someone new, or you can reprogram your mind and develop dating confidence in a matter of days!
This album was designed to rewire your thought patterns and to make you perceive dating as something normal, so that you can behave the way you behave in any normal situation. Affirmations will help you to remove focus from the negative aspects of dating and help you to relax so that you can leave a good first impression as someone who’s open, charming and interesting.
What to Expect
This album will:
Make you stop trying too hard.
Trying too hard happens when you make something so important in your mind that you can’t help but to obsess over it – you blow it out of proportion and you simply can’t live up to your own expectations. This album will help you to realize that dates are normal and only potential, not set in stone, and that it’s OK to just be yourself and see what happens.
Relax you before and during the date.
You will notice that you aren’t feeling as anxious as you were and that you’re much more outgoing and natural. Affirmations will help you to remove the pressure from the date and to focus on having a good time instead of worrying what might go wrong.
Improve your self confidence
so that you become more aware of your qualities and strengths – you will be focused on the positive sides of your personality and confident in them, so you’ll stop pretending to be someone you’re not and just be more comfortable in your skin, able to impress your date by who
you
are.
Stop limiting your choices – buy this album and present your best self to your potential partner!
How and Why Positive Affirmations Work?
Imagine if your entire life you were told that you?re beautiful. Your parents, your aunts, your friends, your school teachers ? everyone around you helped you form a strong belief that you?re really beautiful, so your self-talk becomes no different: you simply know that it?s true, and your behavior follows. But what if your belief system was fed with another kind of thoughts? Yes, you guessed it right.
Most of us aren?t immune to self-defeating and/or negative thoughts, but at the same time we wish that it could all somehow change: that we were more self-confident, that we had more of an entrepreneurial mindset, that we were able to cope with the challenges in our lives more easily?
Well, our mind can make these changes ? we simply have to feed it with different kind of thoughts, and that?s where the affirmations come in.
When faced with statements that affirm something different than we currently believe is true, our subconscious has two choices: to avoid it, or to reconsider its previous beliefs. Its first reaction is usually to stay with its perceived inner truth, especially if the gap is too big, simply because it?s easier,
but your job is not to give up before, first, it gets familiar with the idea that the truth might actually be something more beneficial to you, then starts accepting this more positive self-image as quite possibly your own truth, and finally turns it into a belief, a conviction just as strong as if it has been with you your entire life.
So you see, even though you might have been raised to believe that beautiful is something different than you, you can re-program that belief and completely change the way you feel about yourself and, consequently, the way others see you. And the best part is ? you can do that with practically anything you?re not happy about in your life!
How Recorded Affirmations Work?
Most people think that reciting the affirmations by themselves is the most effective way for a new, positive beliefs to take root in our minds. This can be true for some people, but the limitation of this approach is that you can?t recite them when there?s someone else in the room, or when you?re doing something else, like when you?re exercising or cooking (too many things to focus on at once).
Recorded affirmations remove these limitations: you can play them whenever you want, as many times as you want ? even when you sleep, and they will still have the same beneficial effect. Why?
Well, first of all, all of our affirmations have been professionally recorded so that they reflect the excitement and conviction that they should inspire within you, so that you can identify yourself with them more easily.
Second, even if you?re not consciously paying attention to them, they still enter your subconscious and make changes within it. You will notice that the more you listen to them, you?re feeling less of the resistance you perhaps felt when you just started, and that will be the first proof that they actually do work. Feeling much better about yourself will be the next one, followed by a strong empowering feeling that you can finally change your life the way you?ve always wanted to.
About Our Tenses
Each album consists of three sets of affirmations:
Present tense affirmations
The affirmations in this set usually begin with ?I am?, ?I choose? and similar statements formulated in the present tense. This set is for you if you feel that the gap between your current beliefs and the ones you want to acquire isn?t too big, so by affirming that the change has already occurred or that it is occurring right now you are only filling the missing blocks of thoughts that should fill the gap and strengthen your conviction.
In other words, if you?re already feeling that the change you want to induce within yourself is possible and on its way, that you?re close to it and that you only need a consistent reminder and focusing ? then you won?t go wrong with this set.
Future tense affirmations
This set of affirmations is formulated to help your subconscious get accustomed to the possibility that one day in the near future, you will become the kind of person you want to become and that your life will turn the way you?d like.
This set is for you if you?re right now finding it difficult to believe that what you want is something you can actually have ? if your current beliefs are too far from it and if your internal resistance is too strong. If that?s the case, you should first use this set before moving on to one of the other two. It will basically plant the seeds of change within your subconscious and bridge the gap which currently exists.
Natural affirmations
Natural affirmations are formulated so that they are timeless in a way. There are two cases when this set is a good choice:
When you want to affirm that you?re so firmly set in your positive belief that it?s all natural, that the change you want to induce is already reflecting on your life so that you don?t need to be actively engaged with it anymore
When you want to ?trick? your mind into believing that something is just a natural behavior (that it?s less scary than you thought, or that it?s commonly accepted, or that it?s a universal truth for example).
That?s why it?s best to use this set in combination with one of the previous two, depending on the way you judge your current state and, of course, the way this set of affirmations makes you feel.
What Is the Best Set for You?
As we have previously explained, each set has its own characteristics but the easiest way to decide which one is currently right for you is to read or listen to all of them once or a few times, and to observe how you feel: the set that resonates with you the most, the one that sounds most natural to you is the one you should go with.
You can also combine two sets and listen to one after another, or in different periods of the day, if you feel that the combination would be the best choice for you. You will most probably not need to listen to all three albums during the same period, but you certainly can if you feel that you need them all.
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